The 7 Secrets that will make YOU a successful online dater

In this guide, you will learn the fundamentals of online video chatting in order to do it the right way and leave a charm on any girl you talk to.

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Hello, reader. I'm a 25 years old, ordinary man and I have been around this subject for almost 4 years and tried many online video-chatting sites and platforms like Omegle - where you can randomly match with strangers.

I was able to enjoy many nice conversations with top models from all around the world, and in time learned what they like more and less.

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I will provide you with the knowledge I collected these years for free! So you won't make the mistakes I made and see faster results.

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So without further ado, here are 7 tips and tricks of do's and don'ts which will make you the ultimate online dater: 

1. Get this camera turned on
   Being able to see the other person you're talking to really helps to break the ice.
   The girls you'll encounter would like to see who are they talking to, and make sure they are not being filmed (I've asked many, and it is something they are concerned about!).
   Almost 100% will skip you if all they see is a black screen. Although It doesn't mean you have to show all your body - it is just fine to let your camera see anything but your face if you still want to remain anonymous because most of them just don't have a problem with that.
   I'll recommend a high-quality and not expensive webcam like this, which can be ordered easily from a website like eBay.
   
   Another thing is - you can turn your speakers on if you want to hear them, and your microphone if you wanna have a vocal conversation (obviously).
   I can tell that doing so really upgrades the whole experience.
   But if you're not ok with that, then chatting while being on mute and watching each other through the video is perfect too! 
   But you should know - some girls even asked to hear me or hear them as well.
   For this reason, I had to improve the quality of my microphone and speakers.
   So if you have the same problem as I did, or simply want to upgrade your equipment, I really suggest getting what I personally use: Mic | Speakers
    

2. Being rude? NOT here..
   I still can't understand why this happens, but some people just enter conversations and start to command girls around. The key here is patience - they might want to do what you desire without you even asking (automatically!) if you just start things slow and nice.
   
   Start with a simple hello followed by a few questions to get to know the other side.
   Ask why are they here? that might get you somewhere too, maybe closer to your interests - if you're there for the same reasons.
   
   In conclusion, you got to understand and remember that in front of you there's a human being with feelings, needs, and interests too - nobody is there just to fulfill only your needs and from what I've learned, if you can make the other side happy - you'll get what you were looking for!
    

3. Compliments... please don't ruin your hard work
   When it comes to distributing compliments, it might be a really good thing that will make the connection to a new level, but it can also DESTROY the moment and turn a girl off. Yes, she might even skip you one second after giving her a good compliment... how come?
   Well the point is, that giving a compliment TOO EARLY or overall TOO MANY is a bad thing, and here's why:
   
   Girls usually like men who know their value (and show it), have self-confidence, and overall good fine experience with dating and girls from the past. When you give compliments too early, or too many, it shows them you are needy, and that you are so amazed by them that... you're probably out of their league.
   When this happens, the lady is gonna probably just to skip you in order to find a more worthy guy...
   
   Now, even if you are considering yourself out of her league, or not used to that particular stunning girl, don't show it so much. Yes, you do need to show some interest so don't look completely numb or too cool, otherwise, the girl will really think you're not interested in her and the conversation will just become boring which will make her skip.
   
   Simply relax, and for starts - talk like a polite man (though it might get dirty later ;) )
   What you should do is: compliment her after a few minutes of talk have passed, and don't exceed 2 or 3 compliments throughout the whole conversation!
   Because girls do like compliments, but just not too much - or else as I've explained, it will feel needy.
    

4. Be intriguing, make her feel like she has to stop and watch or learn more
   When matching with a girl through the net, you got to remember she saw dozens of men and probably skipped most of them right away before she encountered you.
   You also need to remember that there are probably sexier and more good-looking men than you are.
   
   So somehow - YOU got to stick out. By saying that I mean to use every talent you have, that you know you're good at, for example - if you're a good guitar player, go for it! A bodybuilder? have a nice body overall? use it!
   Anything you think that might make her say "Hmm.. this one is interesting or not ordinary"
   or "Finally not a boring match" is good. If you can do something that will make her laugh that's perfect too.
   
   It's not a secret that a fit and well-built body attracts their attention..
   It helped me a lot personally. I asked many women on those apps and sites - How rare it is to find a random match with a guy who looks well - and turns out, it barely happens!
   This means that if over time you'll invest even a little in a good training and diet program - you'll be able to stand out and interest the ladies.
   I used the help of the experts from Fiverr who provided me with easy-to-maintain programs which actually work and on a low budget!
   
   Honestly, so many men make so many mistakes that even if you know just how to behave (by following this guide for example), it will get you enough above the rest.
    

5. Do NOT be gross - Eww!
   If you're around the topic for a while, you might know this issue going around. Some men just start the video chat by showing their private parts... if you ever thought about doing that, What you're gonna get is an immediate skip and maybe a nice report on the way. (I admit this one I did not test this because I have at least some basic manners - hope you too)
   
   I understand that hormones might go into our heads sometimes, but let me tell you, even a horny woman that is looking just for this, will press the skip button.
   Of all the hundreds (or maybe above a thousand) women I've matched with, I've only encountered 2 or 3 that started the conversation this way, and they were all extremely ugly.
   So as fact, in contrast to men, women don't start a conversation this way and don't find others (including men) who use this ugly method a worthy chat partner.
   
   If you do want to get dirty, which can happen and be a fun experience for both sides, break the ice first and make her want it too. Talk to her about it and make sure she is in the same mood/head as you. Only then you can take a step in this direction, and if you did it right, she might follow too.
    

6. Farewell, till the next time
   When it is time to say goodbye and you have had enough talking - it is important to remain polite, even if you already got what you wanted.
   If you found a really cute girl and had a good talk or maybe more, you would probably want to have fun again in the future with her. So don't just close up the browser and go. write or say a nice last sentence and actually say goodbye.
   From my experience - she will remember you and even wait for you to get online again, and when you do, she will write or call you on her own - this happened to me with many girls.
    

7. Get into a good platform
   Even after all of the above, you can still fail to have some real fun even following those 6 steps.
   There are a lot of platforms and websites out there that hold ungenuine and unverified users.
   Sometimes you can't even know if there's a real girl in front of you because it might be a man or even a bot.
   On other platforms, you always match with men and only 1% of women, and until you find an attractive lady, she doesn't talk your language and you can't understand each other.
   
   So let me introduce you to the best video chat platform I've found so far, that covers all of these problems and where women have the patience for you.
   All you have to do is to click on one of the buttons below and it will lead to my quick guide for the platform, which explains everything about it in detail, or to the main website of the platform.